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Just in time for Mother's Day!
Kevin Francois, a junior at Spencer High School in Columbus, Georgia, got a lunch-time call on his cell phone from his mother. Most kids might be embarrassed by calls from their parents during school, but Kevin probably wasn't. His mom, Sgt. 1st Class Monique Bates, left in January for a one-year tour in Iraq.
Long story short: a teacher saw him, told him to get off the phone. He didn't, and now he has been suspended for 10 days.
The assistant principal explains:
"They are really allowed to have those cell phones so that after band or after chorus or after the debate and practices are over they have to coordinate with the parents," said Alfred Parham, assistant principal at Spencer. "They're not supposed to use them for conversating back and forth during school because if they were allowed to do that, they could be text messaging each other for test questions."Here's how Kevin's problem started:
Francois received a call from his mother at 12:30 p.m., which he said was his lunch break. Francois said he went outside the school building to get a better reception when his mother called. A teacher who saw Francois on his phone told him to get off the phone. But he didn't.Assistant principal Parham explains that the school officials aren't evil, they're just stupid:Francois said he told the teacher, "This is my mom in Iraq. I'm not about to hang up on my mom."
Francois said the teacher tried to take the phone, causing it to hang up.
The student said he then went with the teacher to the school's office where he surrendered his phone. His mother called again at 12:37 p.m. and left a message scolding her son about hanging up and telling him to answer the phone when she calls.
Parham said the teen's suspension was based on his reaction when he was asked to give up the cell phone and told about the school's cell phone policy.No undue hardship - how sweet. There?s more, read it here."Kevin got defiant and disorderly with Mr. Turner and another assistant principal," Parham said Thursday. "He got defiant with me. He refused to leave Mr. Turner's office. When a kid becomes out of control like that they can either be arrested or suspended for 10 days. Now being that his mother is in Iraq, we're not trying to cause her any undue hardship; he was suspended for 10 days."
As always, Mudville's comments are open for conversating on this topic.
Update: There are two versions of this story going around. You can find the other one here. It's a shorter version of the original I linked above - edited to eliminate much of the information presenting the school's side of the issue. Even with that info I think the school blew it big time on this one, but I call foul on those who'd twist the story to make the school look even worse.
Update 2: Clarifying my position. I'm increasingly tired of blaming systems, organizations, or any group for the actions of people. If I were the teacher involved I'd have stood guard for Kevin while he finished his call, keeping other's away who might confront him. If I were a school admin I'd tell the teacher (without Kevin present) that they had blown it this time, and that I was going to verbally admonish Kevin too.
Then I'd tell Kevin sorry, and let him call his mom back on my phone bill.
Anytime he wanted.
Update 3: What sort of son would I be if I didn't elevate a comment from my mom to the main post?
When I turned on my computer this morning this report came up on my AOL news site. I was so angry, and thought "good thing I don't live there. ( I have a temper, as GH can attest) I wondered if Mr & Mrs GH had seen this. I pulled up the M.G. and there it was. I must say they are always on the ball. I hope all of you Milbloggers stay on this. Of course the boy was upset. His mother is in Iraq for God's (I mean "goodness") sake. Like she has the option to call at anytime she wants! (Sorry, I just had to vent.)
Update 4: The School has reduced the penalty to time served. Email innundation is hinted at. A massive and very public apology would be nice too.
More: Michelle Malkin is on this story too.
Fellow MilBloggers:
Marine Corps Moms are all over this: Marine moms across the country are livid. Tammie Greene and Nicole Markel sent this link minutes after it hit the wires. I'm wondering how the school administrators at Spencer High School would feel if they were serving in a war zone and during a rare opportunity to talk with their child, an authority figure took the phone away and hung up that connection. And I plan to share my opinion with the principal and two assistant principals.
She provides contact info for the school.
Jack Army: Take something out of my hand and stand by while I call an ambulance to deal with your bloody stump!
Florida Cracker: As a former military brat, I'd suggest the mom call her kid at the house and not on his cell phone in the middle of the school day. Everybody has a job to do; the kid's is going to school.
Outside the Beltway: I'd say, at the very least suspend the teacher for 10 days too.
Smash: Outrageous!
Others:
Joe Gandelman: Boo!
Murdoc: But the school has a job to do, and part of that job is to maintain order. That's difficult when you don't enforce the rules fairly. If exceptions are made for this sort of thing, then not only will the school have to continue to make exceptions for this sort of thing in the future, but the sorts of things that the exceptions are made for will become an issue. As will determining whether the excuses made by students are legit or not.