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Greetings! You are reading an article from The Mudville Gazette. To reach the front page, with all the latest news and views, click the logo above or "main" below. Thanks for stopping by! May 30, 2010 Graduation Night - Moon over YusufiyahBy Greyhawk"When the battle is over, when the Three Hundred have gone down to death, then will all Greece look to the Spartans, to see how they bear it. "But who, lady, who will the Spartans look to?" - Steven Pressfield, Gates of Fire A note from our friend Robert Stokely...
![]() Abbey produced this memorial slideshow for Mike in 2007, on the second anniversary of his death. I first saw it not far from Yusufiyah, where we were finishing the work he and so many others had begun. Those were grim days, but from the Stokely family I gained strength to carry on. "But who, lady, who will the Spartans look to? To you." - Steven Pressfield, Gates of Fire Original post: 2010-05-28 06:26:12 Posted by Greyhawk / May 30, 2010 10:45 AM | Permalink 1 TrackBackSometimes others say what needs to be said… A question from Lew Waters, and an answer via Greyhawk at Mudville. Our current national zeitgeist demands both when considering a day dedicated to those who’ve fallen. Most do forget, and there... Read More 34 Comments |
November 26, 2010America@war [Greyhawk]
I think anyone who's ever pondered the "comment" option - once only available on blogs and bulletin boards, now ubiquitous on almost any web site - will appreciate this:
The so-called faculty of writing is not so much a faculty of writing as it is a faculty of thinking. When a man says, "I have an idea but I can't express it"; that man hasn't an idea but merely a vague feeling. If a man has a feeling of that kind, and will sit down for a half an hour and persistently try to put into writing what he feels, the probabilities are at least 90 percent that he will either be able to record it, or else realize that he has no idea at all. In either case, he will do himself a benefit. That's wisdom from the past, captured for posterity at the US Naval Institute, shared via the web on the institute's 137th anniversary. From their about page:
"The Naval Institute has three core activities," among them, History and Preservation: The Naval Institute also has recently introduced Americans at War, a living history of Americans at war in their own words and from their own experiences. These 90-second vignettes convey powerful stories of inspiration, pride, and patriotism. Take a look at the collection, and you'll see it's not limited to accounts from those who served on ships at sea, members of the other branches are well-represented. I'm fortunate to have met USNI's Mary Ripley, she's responsible for the institute's oral history program (and she's the daughter of the late John Ripley, whose story is told here). She also deserves much credit for their blog. ("We're not the Navy nor any government agency. Blog and comment freely.") We met at a milblog conference - Mary knew (and I would come to realize) that milbloggers are the 21st-century version of exactly what the US Naval Institute is all about. Once that light bulb came on in my head, I mentioned a vague idea for a project to her - milblogs as the 21st century oral history that they are. "Put that in writing," she said (of course - see first paragraph above!) - and here's part of the result. Shortly after the first tent was pitched by the American military in Iraq a wire was connected to a computer therein, and the internet was available to a generation of Americans at war - many of whom had grown up online. From that point on, at any given moment, somewhere in Iraq a Soldier, Sailor, Airman or Marine was at a keyboard sharing the events of his or her day with the folks back home. While most would simply fire off an email, others took advantage of the (then) relatively new online blogging platforms to post their thoughts and experiences for the entire world to see. The milblog was born - and from that moment to this stories detailing everything from the most mundane aspects of camp life to intense combat action (often described within hours of the event) have been available on the web... And et cetera - but since you're reading this on a milblog, you probably knew that. And you know that milblogs aren't just blogs written by troops at war, that many friends, family members, and supporters likewise documented their story of America at war online in near-real time, as those stories developed. The diversity in membership of that group is broad, the one thing we all have in common is the impulse to make sense of the seemingly senseless, and communicate the tale - for each of us that impulse was strong enough to overcome whatever barriers prevent the vast majority of people from doing the same. Everyone at some point has some vague idea they believe should be shared - we were the people who, from some combination of internal and external urging, found and spent those many half hours persistently trying to write it down. But where will all that be in another 137 years? Or five or ten, for that matter. That's something I've asked myself since at least 2004 - when I wrote this:
Membership in the ghost battalion has grown in the years since, and an ever growing majority of those abandoned-but-still-standing sites are vanishing. Have you checked out Lt Smash's site lately? How about Sgt Hook's? If you're a long-time milblog reader you know the first widely-read milblog from Operation Iraq Freedom and the first widely-read milblog from Afghanistan are both gone from the web. If you're a relative newcomer to this world you may never even have heard of them - or the dozens upon dozens of others who carried forth the standard they set down. If you have a vague notion that something should be done about that, (a notion I've heard expressed more than once...) then you and I and the good folks at the US Naval Institute are in agreement. Preserving the history documented by the milbloggers is just one of the goals of the milblog project, the once-vague idea that we're now making real. And it's a big idea, if I say so myself - too big to explain in one simple blog post, so stand by for more. Likewise, it's too big a task to be accomplished by just one person. So if you're a milblogger (and exactly what is a milblogger? is a topic for much further discussion on its own) I'm asking for your help. All I'll really need is just a little bit (maybe just one or two of those half hours...) of your time, and your willingness to tell the tale. We've already made history, it's time to save it. (More to follow...) Posted 4:02 PM | Permalink |
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Robert, as a weather forecaster with 24 years professional experience, I think you're exactly right about that rain.
Abbey, your courage and strength do your big brother and your entire family proud. Congratulations on this tremendous achievement. Hugs and God bless.
Linked Here.
Proud of her Robert. And what a beuatiful young woman she's become. I'll gladly fulfill Mike's role of chasing off the boys who come sniffing 'round. It'll give me practice, anyways.
--Chuck
Powerful! that's all I can say.
SF
Taco
GOD bless the Stokely family and friends. I would be humbled and honored to have them as friends. I am sure that rain was tears of joy.
ThomNJ:
Consider us old friends - thank you for your words of encouragement and support.
Congratulations, Abbey!
And yes, Robert, I also agree about the rain.
Bless you all.
To The Stokely Family:
That's what families are all about! What a beautiful young girl and proud sister she is. God Bless you Abbey and I for one think it was your brother's tears that rained down on you at graduation :-) He will always be there for you!
Much love from a proud D-Day Daughter,
Louise Doucette-Johnson
To the Stokely Family:
Congratulations! Thank you so much for sharing this with all of us.
Abbey, congratulations! Tears of joy, pride, and happiness rained down. My best to you and all your family.
Robert, doubt help is needed, but will be glad to join Chuck in shooing duty.
You take right flank, Chuck has the left; thanks for your years of support and friendship.
Congratulations Abbey!!
You are a beautiful young lady, your generation could learn alot about strength and perseverance from you. Along with what really matters in life.
Gob bless you and your family
Abbey & Family~ Thank you, for sharing this Journey. My Congrats! to the Graduate!
God Bless you Abbey and all Gold Star families out there. Your courage and perserverance is an outstanding example to all of us. Bubs must indeed be smiling through the tears.
Congratulations Abbey and the entire Stokely Family.
Courage in the face of sacrifice, loss and challenge of impressive proportions. This is the type of story that demonstrates that we should not mourn for the future. Despite all claims to the contrary, there is greatness in each generation, and here is evidence.
Thank you for sharing this triumph of life. Good luck to the entire family going forward!
Congratulations Abbey..you have an army in heaven urging you on!
Thank you for sharing
There is clearly one thing missing from that young lady's education. She never learned the meaning of the word 'quit.'
I'd like to add something, but words seem to fail me. All I can think of is how, time after time, we Americans somehow seem to make it right. When someone falls, another steps up to take their place. When a family suffers such a loss, it seems like we all suffer, and through that, become so much closer.
God Bless her and her family.
Remarkable, touching, and inspiring. I've got to learn to stop asking where we find young people such as Abbey and Mike and just accept and appreciate the fact that we do. Each demonstrated such strength and sacrifice at such a young age that I'm humbled by their stories. Thank you for sharing.
You've got some family there, Robert. Some family.... *smile*
I am smiling. When all is said and done, I am very blessed to be the dad of three wonderful children who grew to be adults who live life with purpose and certainly bring joy to my life.
I am sure I had sommething worth saying, but I seem to have gotten something in my eyes here, and am having trouble typing...
...all this dust here on the internet. Horrible for eyes.
May I reproduce this article on my blog? It's beautiful, and would be eye-opening for many people.
I am filled with gratitude for your lilfe, the lives of your familes, and all the people who serve our country. Thank you.
Please feel free to post on your blog, and would appreciate you giving link credit to Mudville Gazette
thank you for your interest, support, and encouragement to our family and honoring us with your blog post.
Robert Stokely
Too many of our fallen heroes seem forgotten today. How wonderful to see that this will not be the case with Abbey and her family.
Words fail me. Except perhaps for one. "Humbled." I feel humbled by this story, and grateful that our country has people like Abbey, her brother, and the rest of her family. Pretty big shoes for the rest of us to fill. But hey, at least we can try...
I'll never forget Mike's story I read on the Hell on Heels blog so long ago. It comes as no surprise that his sister Abbey has such strength. A strong nation can only be built on a strong foundation such as the Stokely represents. Salutes, and thanks, from a N.M. PGR.
I cannot appropriately express my overwhelming humbleness after reading your story. Thank-you Stokely Family for your sacrifice and courage. Abbey, you are an inspiration to us all!
As a father to a little girl, my heart broke as I began to read your story. As your narrative continued, I felt enormous empathy for this young woman, struggling with so much grief at a young age, who managed to graduate despite all of her struggles. I had chills up my spine (OK, and maybe a tear in my eye) as you revealed that this beautiful young woman not only overcame these trials, but triumphed over them.
I thank you and your family for your sacrifices, and congratulate you and your daughter on her achievements.
I am humbled. There are no words...
The Stokely family (and all the other military families) have my deepest gratitude for their sacrifices on my & the country's behalf. My tears & prayers are for you all. God bless & be with all our heroes and their families!
Way to go, Abbey! Look out world. :)
Robert, I hope the joy of the day put a little extra sparkle in that rain. It's no surprise that yet another Stokely inspires me.
With gratitude as always for Mike's service and all your family's sacrifices.