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March 10, 2006

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Honor the Fallen

By Greyhawk

We first met Mike Stokely via an email from his father, who now sends this message:

On another note, as a beautiful day passes by, we are fortunate to be one day closer when our soldiers return home and are reunited with their families. While this moment will be bitter sweet for those of us who lost our loved one, it is none the less, for me, a moment to rejoice, for my son, SGT Mike Stokely, would be happy his "guys" and I am sure he beams in heaven at this coming moment for them.

Robert Stokely
He added this story from the local newspaper (in archives click "news" on left of screen, March 6 file.)

Legislation offered to name highways in Coweta, Walton for fallen soldier

By ELIZABETH RICHARDSON

"All Americans owe a debt of gratitude to the men and women of our armed forces who risk their lives in the defense of freedom and to secure the blessings of liberty for this nation and other peoples of the world," Senate Resolution 639 and Senate Resolution 864 proclaim in honor of the late Sgt. Mike Stokely and all of the others willing to make the ultimate sacrifice for their country.

Senate Resolution 639 would dedicate a strip of roadway to the fallen soldier. The portion, which would bear the name "Sgt. Mike Stokely Memorial Highway," would stretch from U.S. Highway 54 from the Fayette County line to its intersection with U.S. Highway 16. The resolution has been passed by Georgia's Senate and is currently pending in the House.

Resolution 864 would dedicate a span of highway to Stokely from U.S. Highway 81 in Walton County from its intersection with U.S. 78, which runs straight through Mike's hometown of Loganville, to the Newton County Line.

"To my knowledge, two separate highways have never been named for one person," said Coweta County's Solicitor Robert Stokely of the ongoing accomplishments of his son six months after he was killed by a roadside bomb in Iraq at the age of 23.

Sen. Mitch Seabaugh (R-Sharpsburg), sponsor of SR 639, suggested the dedication idea to Stokely about two weeks after Mike's death Aug. 16, 2005.

"At first I had to think about it and talk to Niki [Mike's widow] and the family because I was worried that it might take on the wrong appearance, and Mike didn't serve and do what he did to get a highway named after him," said Stokely.

After considering it from Mike's perspective, he decided that it would at least "call attention to the service of others that continue to make the daily sacrifice," he said.

It was Sen. John Douglas, who represents Newton and part of both Henry and Walton counties, who worked together with Seabaugh to propose the resolutions.

Stokely and his family are now waiting for the resolution to be passed in the House and be signed by Gov. Sonny Perdue. They have no timeline beyond the possible acceptance or any idea what to expect for the potential dedication.

"I would like for it to be sometime in early summer when his fellow soldiers and immediate platoon can attend. This needs to be as much for them as it is for the Stokelys. They didn't get to see what was done for us and for Mike, and I want them to have the opportunity to come and see what Georgia does for its fallen soldiers. I also want them to have a chance for people to clap for them the way they have for Mike Stokely."

Both of the strips of highway that may soon bear Mike's name have special meaning to his family.

The strip on Highway 54 holds a special place in Stokely's heart because one day in late November 2004 the entire family visited the Line Creek nature trail for some family photographs. It is the spot where the picture of Stokely was taken that has now been distributed nationwide.

"When I cross Line Creek, I always think about that day," said Stokely. "I hope others will think about the sacrifice of all the soldiers."

The second strip of highway runs by Corinth Cemetery in Loganville -- Mike's final resting place.

"These last six months my family and I have spent an awful lot of time up there; when I travel that road now I think about this time or that time with Mike and wonder how I went from a car seat to a casket in 20 years."

Niki now owns and operates a tanning salon in Loganville that sits on the highway that might be named for her late husband in the near future. Her business is also coincidentally within walking distance from Mike's grave.

"This resolution points to the dangers our soldiers must face, and Coweta has gotten roughed up in this war," said Stokely.

"It will take some getting used to -- to ride down the road and see a sign with a Stokely name. But those two signs and a grave are the period at the end of the sentence. We're in re-runs now for the rest of our lives; and, for me, that will never be enough."

You can read Mr Stokely's original email to us here.


Posted by Greyhawk / March 10, 2006 8:54 PM | Permalink

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And a Goodie!!! from You Betcha I'm a Proud Army Mom on March 11, 2006 2:05 AM

How about 2 Goodies? Lordy, we're on a roll here! You might have read my posts about Sgt. Mike Stokely's father trying to get a letter in the Washington Post to counter another parent's belief that "Iraq was a waste". Read More

The day of the night that Mike was killed, he could have gone up to Baghdad for an overnight trip to take equipment for changeout, but a fellow squad member wanted to go as well... Read More

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It is about time. Everey street where I live is simply a #. Each person that died for US should at the very least have a street named after them We should Never Forget.

Tank-you herores

I'm glad we're keeping Mike's memory alive.

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November 26, 2010


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I think anyone who's ever pondered the "comment" option - once only available on blogs and bulletin boards, now ubiquitous on almost any web site - will appreciate this:
The so-called faculty of writing is not so much a faculty of writing as it is a faculty of thinking. When a man says, "I have an idea but I can't express it"; that man hasn't an idea but merely a vague feeling. If a man has a feeling of that kind, and will sit down for a half an hour and persistently try to put into writing what he feels, the probabilities are at least 90 percent that he will either be able to record it, or else realize that he has no idea at all. In either case, he will do himself a benefit.

That's wisdom from the past, captured for posterity at the US Naval Institute, shared via the web on the institute's 137th anniversary.

From their about page:

The Naval Institute shall remain

INDEPENDENT - A non-profit member association, with no government support, that does not lobby for special interests;

NON-PARTISAN - An independent, professional military association with a mission, goals and objectives that transcend political affiliations; and shall encourage

IDEAS - Through its respected journals Proceedings and Naval History, its conferences, its books and its online content, in support of those who serve.

"The Naval Institute has three core activities," among them, History and Preservation:

The Naval Institute also has recently introduced Americans at War, a living history of Americans at war in their own words and from their own experiences. These 90-second vignettes convey powerful stories of inspiration, pride, and patriotism.

Take a look at the collection, and you'll see it's not limited to accounts from those who served on ships at sea, members of the other branches are well-represented.

I'm fortunate to have met USNI's Mary Ripley, she's responsible for the institute's oral history program (and she's the daughter of the late John Ripley, whose story is told here). She also deserves much credit for their blog. ("We're not the Navy nor any government agency. Blog and comment freely.") We met at a milblog conference - Mary knew (and I would come to realize) that milbloggers are the 21st-century version of exactly what the US Naval Institute is all about. Once that light bulb came on in my head, I mentioned a vague idea for a project to her - milblogs as the 21st century oral history that they are.

"Put that in writing," she said (of course - see first paragraph above!) - and here's part of the result.

Shortly after the first tent was pitched by the American military in Iraq a wire was connected to a computer therein, and the internet was available to a generation of Americans at war - many of whom had grown up online. From that point on, at any given moment, somewhere in Iraq a Soldier, Sailor, Airman or Marine was at a keyboard sharing the events of his or her day with the folks back home. While most would simply fire off an email, others took advantage of the (then) relatively new online blogging platforms to post their thoughts and experiences for the entire world to see. The milblog was born - and from that moment to this stories detailing everything from the most mundane aspects of camp life to intense combat action (often described within hours of the event) have been available on the web...

And et cetera - but since you're reading this on a milblog, you probably knew that. And you know that milblogs aren't just blogs written by troops at war, that many friends, family members, and supporters likewise documented their story of America at war online in near-real time, as those stories developed.

The diversity in membership of that group is broad, the one thing we all have in common is the impulse to make sense of the seemingly senseless, and communicate the tale - for each of us that impulse was strong enough to overcome whatever barriers prevent the vast majority of people from doing the same. Everyone at some point has some vague idea they believe should be shared - we were the people who, from some combination of internal and external urging, found and spent those many half hours persistently trying to write it down.

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But where will all that be in another 137 years? Or five or ten, for that matter. That's something I've asked myself since at least 2004 - when I wrote this:

Closing Blogs is nothing new. So many site's owners just give up on their own. They come and go, you know, these MilBloggers do. Like any other sort of blogger. Many post in the lonely down hours far from home, spill their guts for the world, then abandon their spots when the tour of duty is up. They have lives again somewhere in the world, and no need to share the details. So it goes.

Many are truly gone - no site left at all. "The page cannot be found." Other blogs remain, like abandoned defensive positions in shifting desert sands.

Membership in the ghost battalion has grown in the years since, and an ever growing majority of those abandoned-but-still-standing sites are vanishing. Have you checked out Lt Smash's site lately? How about Sgt Hook's? If you're a long-time milblog reader you know the first widely-read milblog from Operation Iraq Freedom and the first widely-read milblog from Afghanistan are both gone from the web. If you're a relative newcomer to this world you may never even have heard of them - or the dozens upon dozens of others who carried forth the standard they set down.

If you have a vague notion that something should be done about that, (a notion I've heard expressed more than once...) then you and I and the good folks at the US Naval Institute are in agreement. Preserving the history documented by the milbloggers is just one of the goals of the milblog project, the once-vague idea that we're now making real.

And it's a big idea, if I say so myself - too big to explain in one simple blog post, so stand by for more. Likewise, it's too big a task to be accomplished by just one person. So if you're a milblogger (and exactly what is a milblogger? is a topic for much further discussion on its own) I'm asking for your help. All I'll really need is just a little bit (maybe just one or two of those half hours...) of your time, and your willingness to tell the tale.

We've already made history, it's time to save it.

(More to follow...)




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Tending Distant
Fires


Far from hearth and home, watching
Cold alone but not alone
On distant shore and only wanting
Safe return and little more

What tales we'll tell
When that time comes
When tales can be told

When things grim
Seem far away
When other fires go cold

Some distant sunset, vision fading
Memories remain
And tired eyes gaze 'pon folded flags
While distant drums beat their refrain

Saluting fallen friends whose names
And youth will never fade
Here's to those on other shores,
for them live well, the price is paid

- Greyhawk,
Baghdad,
December 2004