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March 7, 2005

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Battles Without End

By Greyhawk

Like all such events in the past, The War on Terror will produce it's share of stories - some tragic, some comic, all amazing. Many will be the tale of the fallen hero - but here are three that show that the story rarely ends there:

The San Francisco Chronicle

More than two weeks after he was killed while pulling fellow soldiers from a burning vehicle in Iraq, the body of Army Staff Sgt. Jason Hendrix remains caught in a legal limbo created by a battle between his divorced parents over who has the right to bury his remains.

Renee Amick wants her 28-year-old son buried near her home in Freedom (Santa Cruz County), near where he was born and raised and spent his first two years of high school. She has obtained a temporary restraining order keeping his body in California and has enlisted the help of her local congressman, who questioned top Army brass on the matter this week.

Russell Hendrix of Claremore, Okla., believes his son should be returned to the state where he graduated from high school and enlisted in the Army more than a decade ago to lie beside the remains of his grandfather, a Marine. The elder Hendrix has gone to court to be named administrator of his son's estate.

I wonder if anyone asked the guys in his unit if he ever expressed a preference? Arlington National Cemetary, anyone?

The New York Daily News

Red tape is keeping the mother and siblings of a Queens soldier killed in Iraq from coming to the U.S. from Pakistan to bury the war hero.

The agony of National Guardsman Azhar Ali's family has been compounded by harassment they've been getting in Pakistan because the soldier fought for America, said City Councilman John Liu (D-Queens).

And kudos to Senator Clinton, who's also taking action.

Finally, one Mrs G linked earlier:

Twelve-year-old Sidney Kamolvathin lost her mother to cancer in 2000 and her father to a heart attack in 2003, and then her only sibling headed off to war.

Sidney and her 21-year-old brother, Alain, had been living apart since their parents died, she with a guardian in New Jersey, he with relatives in Ozone Park in Queens.

Alain departed for Iraq last fall, saying his combat pay and the money he saved on living expenses would allow him to buy a small house when he returned. He promised they would soon be able to live together again.

"His whole goal - and everything he did - was geared to gain custody of his sister," a cousin would tell a reporter.

When he was able, Alain telephoned Sidney, the voice of the only surviving member of her immediate family crackling over the line. He had originally joined the National Guard at the urging of his father, who surely did not foresee he would follow his wife to an early grave and his son would be calling his orphaned daughter from a war zone.

In December, Alain's vehicle was hit by an improvised explosive device. He was not hurt badly enough as to be sent home, although the injury was serious enough that Sidney reportedly told friends at school her brother would be getting a Purple Heart.

On Jan. 16, Alain's vehicle overturned into a drainage ditch in Baghdad. He was killed along with another soldier from the 1st Battalion, 69th Infantry Regiment of the New York National Army Guard, the renowned "Fighting 69th."

At the funeral, the honor guard handed Sidney the folded flag that had covered her brother's coffin, but military officials subsequently ruled that she was not eligible for the survivor's benefits that are due the spouse and children of a soldier killed in action.

There's got to be a lot more to that story - I hope we eventually hear it.


Posted by Greyhawk / March 7, 2005 6:11 PM | Permalink

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Normally, there's a form you sign, that's updated before you deploy. It has all the latest next of kin info on it and, if I remember correctly, it's for who gets the sgli (serviceman's group life insurance)monies. It several lines on it to include as many folks as you want. As for the rest of the survivor's benefits, it'll probably take at least a congressional intervention for her to get.
I don't know how the army does it, but the USAF herds it's deploying folks thru the "Mobility lines" and one of the stops is this form and the will. All military folks out there reading this story should ensure those bits of administrivia are taken care of because somebody may have the rest of their life to regret you did not. As always, it's your choice.

please stay this story for Sydney's sake. The more you get the word out the more pressure you will put on the them to do the right thing for this girl.

GIVE HER THE G*D DAMN MONEY YOU CHEAP BASTARDS.

thats all i can say with out cursing
Rich

PS I agree with DebbieR, please keep following up this one

I believe that survivor benefits are separate from SGLI. I hope that the sister was on the DD93, but even if she is not, that SGLI money should legally go to her, though it will take time.

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November 26, 2010


America@war
[Greyhawk]
I think anyone who's ever pondered the "comment" option - once only available on blogs and bulletin boards, now ubiquitous on almost any web site - will appreciate this:
The so-called faculty of writing is not so much a faculty of writing as it is a faculty of thinking. When a man says, "I have an idea but I can't express it"; that man hasn't an idea but merely a vague feeling. If a man has a feeling of that kind, and will sit down for a half an hour and persistently try to put into writing what he feels, the probabilities are at least 90 percent that he will either be able to record it, or else realize that he has no idea at all. In either case, he will do himself a benefit.

That's wisdom from the past, captured for posterity at the US Naval Institute, shared via the web on the institute's 137th anniversary.

From their about page:

The Naval Institute shall remain

INDEPENDENT - A non-profit member association, with no government support, that does not lobby for special interests;

NON-PARTISAN - An independent, professional military association with a mission, goals and objectives that transcend political affiliations; and shall encourage

IDEAS - Through its respected journals Proceedings and Naval History, its conferences, its books and its online content, in support of those who serve.

"The Naval Institute has three core activities," among them, History and Preservation:

The Naval Institute also has recently introduced Americans at War, a living history of Americans at war in their own words and from their own experiences. These 90-second vignettes convey powerful stories of inspiration, pride, and patriotism.

Take a look at the collection, and you'll see it's not limited to accounts from those who served on ships at sea, members of the other branches are well-represented.

I'm fortunate to have met USNI's Mary Ripley, she's responsible for the institute's oral history program (and she's the daughter of the late John Ripley, whose story is told here). She also deserves much credit for their blog. ("We're not the Navy nor any government agency. Blog and comment freely.") We met at a milblog conference - Mary knew (and I would come to realize) that milbloggers are the 21st-century version of exactly what the US Naval Institute is all about. Once that light bulb came on in my head, I mentioned a vague idea for a project to her - milblogs as the 21st century oral history that they are.

"Put that in writing," she said (of course - see first paragraph above!) - and here's part of the result.

Shortly after the first tent was pitched by the American military in Iraq a wire was connected to a computer therein, and the internet was available to a generation of Americans at war - many of whom had grown up online. From that point on, at any given moment, somewhere in Iraq a Soldier, Sailor, Airman or Marine was at a keyboard sharing the events of his or her day with the folks back home. While most would simply fire off an email, others took advantage of the (then) relatively new online blogging platforms to post their thoughts and experiences for the entire world to see. The milblog was born - and from that moment to this stories detailing everything from the most mundane aspects of camp life to intense combat action (often described within hours of the event) have been available on the web...

And et cetera - but since you're reading this on a milblog, you probably knew that. And you know that milblogs aren't just blogs written by troops at war, that many friends, family members, and supporters likewise documented their story of America at war online in near-real time, as those stories developed.

The diversity in membership of that group is broad, the one thing we all have in common is the impulse to make sense of the seemingly senseless, and communicate the tale - for each of us that impulse was strong enough to overcome whatever barriers prevent the vast majority of people from doing the same. Everyone at some point has some vague idea they believe should be shared - we were the people who, from some combination of internal and external urging, found and spent those many half hours persistently trying to write it down.

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But where will all that be in another 137 years? Or five or ten, for that matter. That's something I've asked myself since at least 2004 - when I wrote this:

Closing Blogs is nothing new. So many site's owners just give up on their own. They come and go, you know, these MilBloggers do. Like any other sort of blogger. Many post in the lonely down hours far from home, spill their guts for the world, then abandon their spots when the tour of duty is up. They have lives again somewhere in the world, and no need to share the details. So it goes.

Many are truly gone - no site left at all. "The page cannot be found." Other blogs remain, like abandoned defensive positions in shifting desert sands.

Membership in the ghost battalion has grown in the years since, and an ever growing majority of those abandoned-but-still-standing sites are vanishing. Have you checked out Lt Smash's site lately? How about Sgt Hook's? If you're a long-time milblog reader you know the first widely-read milblog from Operation Iraq Freedom and the first widely-read milblog from Afghanistan are both gone from the web. If you're a relative newcomer to this world you may never even have heard of them - or the dozens upon dozens of others who carried forth the standard they set down.

If you have a vague notion that something should be done about that, (a notion I've heard expressed more than once...) then you and I and the good folks at the US Naval Institute are in agreement. Preserving the history documented by the milbloggers is just one of the goals of the milblog project, the once-vague idea that we're now making real.

And it's a big idea, if I say so myself - too big to explain in one simple blog post, so stand by for more. Likewise, it's too big a task to be accomplished by just one person. So if you're a milblogger (and exactly what is a milblogger? is a topic for much further discussion on its own) I'm asking for your help. All I'll really need is just a little bit (maybe just one or two of those half hours...) of your time, and your willingness to tell the tale.

We've already made history, it's time to save it.

(More to follow...)




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The Mudville Gazette is written and produced by Greyhawk, who recently retired from 24 years of active duty in the US military, but will maintain this disclaimer: Unless otherwise credited, the opinions expressed are those of the author, and nothing here is to be taken as representing the official position of or endorsement by the United States Department of Defense or any of its subordinate components.

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Tending Distant
Fires


Far from hearth and home, watching
Cold alone but not alone
On distant shore and only wanting
Safe return and little more

What tales we'll tell
When that time comes
When tales can be told

When things grim
Seem far away
When other fires go cold

Some distant sunset, vision fading
Memories remain
And tired eyes gaze 'pon folded flags
While distant drums beat their refrain

Saluting fallen friends whose names
And youth will never fade
Here's to those on other shores,
for them live well, the price is paid

- Greyhawk,
Baghdad,
December 2004